Hey Beautiful,
When you're in love, you have such wonderful and powerful emotions - of course we know it has a lot to
do with brain chemicals, but well, whatever the cause, it's just fine with us to feel that bliss - and that focus too.
It's fun, exciting, compelling, and the best part about growing love is when you meet someone who just
makes you laugh.
There ARE times when you have to make the first move and there's nothing wrong with that as long as you
do it well.
Sure, you can throw the ball in his court - and then it's up to him. There are a thousand ways you can
do this.
Make sure that when you do, you are enjoying yourself. Otherwise, it is not worth it!
One thing we talk about here are the potholes on Romance Road.
Here are just a few:
- When you are hung up on so much self-revelation that you have to send your guy long letters and emails
to explain your point of view
- When relationships starts being an event where you take on the facial expression of a teacher who has
put the whole class on silence because she's ticked off
- When you are just plain furious at your guy but really at yourself
When that happens, one thing we truly wish for is to return to the time when being in love was so much
fun - when things were magic.
You know that saying "take a breath"? It's a great start when it's a difficult time. You can add to that
whatever "mantra" or "mission statement" or personal pep talk that helps you in whatever you're going through.
If you can, get away for a change of scenery. Time to take stock and take some time for yourself. Time
to start making your love life fun again. It's usually not as hard as it seems. "You can do this!"
P.S. So many people have written me with such wonderful questions, as always, and I hope to share those
also in this newsletter (names and details changed as always). I really appreciate them.
P.P.S. Some reader comments:
Thanks for your sage advice in "Calling Men" and "Hard To Get"; I've read them both and they are
chock-full of amazing advice.
Cheers,
Martha
"Dear Mimi, I just wanted you to know that ever since I started receiving your emails (just 1 month),
and taking the Flirting Secrets course, I feel so much better about myself, and I always walk around with a smile. Previously
I had one very pathetic long distance relationship. Now I have 3 guys interested in me. ...I must admit, I was skeptical at
first, but now I think that everyone needs to know that your advice really works. Thank you so much."
--from a Flirting Secrets Member
"Mimi, I used your flirting techniques from the time I entered the restaurant. ... It worked. I
had one guy who was crazy about me, another told me I was sooo attractive, hot, and told me dump the guy on my right who I
had been talking to and laughing. Then two guys just kept smiling at me and came over to talk to me. ...Your flirting works
and I had the greatest time. I have never quite acted this way and I know it works."
--from a Flirting Secrets Member
"Hi Mimi, I can't tell you how much your emails and your flirting secrets that I purchased have made a difference
to my life."
--from a Flirting Secrets Member
Go here and get more information:
Books by Mimi Tanner:
and of course...
